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The Reality of Love with Lenny Green & Indy Smith November 15, 2012

25 Nov

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Reality of Love with Lenny Green and Indy Smith on WBLS

25 Nov

Reality Of Love with Lenny Green & Indy Smith

25 Nov

Reality Of Love Lenny Green w/ Indy Smith Jacina Love

25 Nov

The Definition Of A Ride or Die Chick, Where are our Ride or Die Men???????

8 Jan

The ultimate woman for any man is the mythical Ride-or-Die chick. The concept itself is one of selflessness that borders on insanity when you observe the women with whom this term was coined for. Originally a Ride-or-Die girl is the one who would hold your gun, hide the crack in her… crack and mule the cocaine overseas so that you both could be paid. The Ride-or-Die chick would get upset when you slept around but she would never leave, she would stick to Omerta and do 25 to Life in prison before allowing you to be taken by the authorities. She would have your babies, feed you and coddle you without the need for thanks because her love was unconditional. Yes there have been many women of this ideal and to outsiders it is a mentality that is seldom understood.

Benefits to being a Ride-or-Die chick?

A man knows when his woman has his back and loves him unconditionally. He may be a flawed, imperfect, scumbag but he loves her beyond any other woman that will ever be in his life. He loves her deeply because he knows that no matter how much the world is against him she will be there by his side. While he may not show it, it forces him to have a strong loyalty for her that goes beyond fidelity, it is a soul bond.

When Tupac sung about this mythical woman back in his days of influence, every hood chick dreamed of being that jewel in her man’s eyes. Many still do it and take drug charges, get knocked up and live with the STD’s that the hood in their life brings home. Ride-or-Die is the ultimate construct of unconditional love, it is what marriages on paper are meant to be but as statistics show – not the same. In certain cultures and religions where divorce is unheard of or lethal for the woman, being Ride-or-Die is forced. In our western culture especially within the bourgeoisie, it is unheard of. One cannot imagine the high-powered wife of the CEO in some Fortune 500 company taking the bullet for her husband when it comes time for a prison sentence. No it rarely happens and this is why it seems that the concept of Ride-or-Die is one of a low income, hood mentality.

The Professional Ride-or-Die Chick

There are many ways that a woman of a law-abiding citizen can be construed as Ride-or-Die, in reality many are but the term is never used for them. These women allow their men to leave high paying jobs to pursue their dreams without risk of leaving, they allow for mistresses to come and go without risk of leaving and they will cut the balls off of anyone who crosses their men. Thugs or Professionals all have the same woman with the same mentality when it comes to being Ride-or Die, the definition is “unconditional love”. It is the same love many of us have for our parents and siblings, you don’t disown them, you forgive them, love them, and defend them. They may be assholes but they are your assholes and you would rather put yourself in harm’s way than see anything happen to them. That is the Ride-or-Die mentality.

Is Your Social Media Life Killing Your Love Life?

28 Dec

Dear Listener, I’d first like to thank you for tuning in to Kiss N’ Tell “Reality Of Love” Lenny Green and I really work hard to deliver honest advice to those that need it. In regards to your issue, I personally could never imagine being with someone who spends more time on a social network more then me. I’m in the entertainment industry and give lots of time to this new social world because of Marketing and Promotions, but at no means will Face Book or Twitter or any other Social site take priority over my significant other. To answer your question, I do understand your discomfort (Lady I Hate My Husbands New Social Friends)………Look the bottom line is if your man or woman is showing men or women on a social media site to much attention in your opinion at odd times let them know and if there’s no change you really need to reconsider the level of commitment that the other party has to your relationship as well as your value to them as a person. You must communicate and you must find your core values so that others will value you.

*Side Bar: Remember people, we are spirits living a human experience, we feel our circumstances before we respond to them. If your in touch with the true you you will find that you should always listen to those uncomfortable knocks on your spirits door.

*For All To Know: Take it into consideration folks, these web and technology builders will be around forever building new ways to instantly gratify us but by no means do they care about us like a love one so if your putting technology before your loved one or miss using a social media site it may be time to take a step away from the Laptop, Ipad, Iphone, Blackberry and start living in the land of the Spirit/Human……….((:

Hugs & Kisses

Indy Smith

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