Trust Is More Then A Five Letter Word

4 Jan

Trust means to believe. I trust you, means I have no doubt in my mind about your honesty, integrity and credibility. No relationship can survive without trust. How to develop and keep the trust in a relationship forever, is another story because as soon as the trust breaks, the relationship breaks. Trust is the foundation on which a relationship is built. If you don’t trust a person, howsoever you may love him/her, your relationship will not survive, because you have no trust in him/her.
How do you manage to build the trust in the earlier period is most important. The beginning can be very dangerous. What may arouse suspicion should be avoided at all the costs. Small things such as if you are going out, inform where you are going and to meet whom? If there is a change in your mood, talk to your partner and talk about the reasons. If you are facing career problems, rather than hiding them, talk about them with your partner and seek support. Many times, you will behave differently when you are facing career issues and that may make your partner think about all types of possibilities. Be open about everything. Your words and body language should be synchronous at all the times. Inform your partner about everything and if not fully possible assure your partner that things are going differently and you are under pressure. Be open. Seek trust and you will get it.
It is love and some assessment of how trustworthy the person is. As the relationship grows, issues start forming because of doubts about whether the other person can be trusted? Was he/she trustworthy from the beginning or was I fooled? Or is he/she changing now? People sometimes choose not to reveal who the truly are and that my become a trust issue. This kind of doubtful thinking causes tremendous strain in a relationship and with the breaking of trust, the relationship breaks. If your not sure of who you truly are how can you expect someone else to understand or trust who you are.

Tune in Thursday nights on LennyGreen.com @ 11:00 PM (EST) after 98.7 KissFM’s “Kissing After Dark” to hear Radio Personalities Lenny Green and Indy Smith on Kiss N’ Tell “Reality Of Love”

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