ASK INDY: The Secret He’s Keeping From You & What He Really Wants

14 Jan

Every man secretly wants to be with a woman who puts herself first. But he WILL take whatever he can get if you give it away freely. That’s why I say that exclusivity without a commitment is a trap. It’s great for him, but not good at all for you.

Keeping your options open makes it possible to have what you want, and it makes it easier for the man you have to give you what you want, because it completely changes your outlook and your “vibe.” I call it circular dating.

Once he sees that you’re honoring your heart, it will compel him to honor you. He’ll stop blowing hot or cold and give you the attention you deserve.

Or, he’ll leave you alone; and you’ll find out he wasn’t worth your time and heart anyway. You just saved yourself a lot of heartbreak. And since you were keeping your options open, you have a number of other suitors who are happily standing by. Lucky you!

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