When Should We Stop Dating Someone?

2 Jan

If you date men or women long past the point when you are still exploring whether or not s/he is your ideal match, take heart! You are in the vast majority of people around the world. This phenomenon is not regional, generational, or related to education, or socioeconomic circumstances.

Being willing or able to recognize that someone is a good match or not a good match for you, and stop dating him or her, seems to be a universal dilemma.

Let’s review a few Dating Basics:

· Dating is a process and you are dating to find your ideal match.

· Recognizing that the men or women you are dating are not a match for you is the point of the dating process.

· It is highly likely that you will date a number of people who will not be your ideal match and that many of the people you are dating will recognize that you are not their ideal match.

· Ending the dating process is the only next logical step to take if we agree that the point of dating is to find our ideal mate.

We fall into dysfunctional relationships when we realize the other person is beyond wrong for us.

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One Response to “When Should We Stop Dating Someone?”

  1. TheGabbieF January 2, 2011 at 10:46 PM #

    The moment you feel that twinge, raise that brow or they get on your nerves the wrong way
    If they’re the one, you’ll still get agitated, pissed, whatever….. but you’ll compromise because it’s real and you know it. Love plain and simple.

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